From High Conflict to High Road

Coaching Course

From Chaos to Calm. Reducing litigation, Protecting Child's Development, and Creating Enforceable Plans

9 Session / 8 Hour Program

Take at your own pace. When you sign back in you will be taken to where you left off. How to reclaim your life in 9 sessions or less!

Certificate of Achievement

Will be emailed to you once you have completed the course to show your efforts to reduce the conflict (&/or) for Court Orders.

Session Transcripts

TRANSCRIPT with RE-CAP of Session and an ACTION PLAN will be emailed to you after completing each Session.

ID Verification

You will be required to upload a photo of your ID and have an email address.

Questionnaires

There is an initial questionnaire, totally private, to collect information for demographics and statistics. Later you will receive emailed follow-up questionnaires every 3 months for 2 years to see the progress of your situation.

Open-Book Quizzes

There is a Quiz at the end of each Session. You get 2 tries for a correct answer. If still incorrect after 2 tries, you retake the Session. You need 100% to pass. The Transcript will be on the left, and the Quiz will be on the right of your screen.

Cost $149

Available in Payments.

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Session Titles & Content

SESSION 1

How Conflict & Alienation Affect Your Child and Their Adulthood

What judges commonly look for in high-conflict custody cases
The critical ages at which children learn about relationships, communication, values, respect, self-worth, responsibility, and emotional stability
How badmouthing a coparent undermines a child’s access to security, self-love, and self-discipline
What parental alienation (PA) is, its symptoms, and how it can contribute to loss of custody
How PA can backfire on the alienating parent
Behaviors and fears commonly observed in alienating parents
Research and clinical findings linking PA to negative outcomes

SESSION 2

"Erasing Family" Documentary of Stories Showing True Risks of Horrible Outcomes

Participants will view and reflect on the documentary "Erasing Family", which illustrates the long-term impact of parental alienation on children and families

SESSION 3

Helping Your Child First & Reversing Parental Alienation

Reinforcing that there is still hope for the child and the parent–child relationship
Why the quality of your relationship with your child is a strong predictor of their future well-being
Practical steps to begin reversing parental alienation
How to respond when a child is refusing contact, is angry, or is disrespectful
Providing your child with "protective shields" from conflict through coping skills
Creating a safe emotional base in your home
"The Friendship Forest" – a video for ages 7–12 that teaches what makes a true friend, the importance of not choosing sides, promotes forgiveness, and encourages children to stay uninvolved in conflict between others
How badmouthing your co-parent is basically a self-inflicted wound for your child’s self-esteem

SESSION 4

Exploring and Transforming Anger into Confidence

Subliminal tools for calming emotional storms and neutralizing trauma and triggers
Reframing anger and past experiences
Understanding that anger is a choice and can be redirected
What judges need to consistently see from a parent in high-conflict cases
Why managing angry thoughts and reactions is essential for both the child and the case outcome
Exploring common root causes of anger and available avenues for help
Transforming anger into empathy, including a guided forgiveness practice
Why parents should not badmouth a coparent to potential witnesses (professionals, family, or friends)
Transforming "I want to scream" into "I've got this."

SESSION 5

More Insights to Gain Productive Focus

Transforming Conflict through Forgiveness: Strategies for releasing the desire for retribution and understanding why revenge is counterproductive
Professional Perspectives on Contact Refusal: Analyzing how a child’s refusal of contact is perceived by court professionals
Emotional Intelligence and Regulation: Developing advanced coping skills and establishing a "backup plan" to maintain composure
Cognitive Reframing and De-escalation: Techniques for "not taking the bait" and reframing high-conflict interactions
Trigger Awareness and Prevention: Identifying personal vulnerabilities and implementing proactive habits
Restoring Self-Esteem Post-Separation: Addressing the confusion and diminished self-worth
Foundations of Healthy Relationships: Identifying the two key commonalities required for stable partnerships
Overcoming Guilt and Regret: Moving past emotional roadblocks to focus on productive, future-oriented parenting
The Economics of Parenting: A realistic assessment of the time and financial investment required to raise a child
The Benefits of Shared Parenting: Shifting perspective to recognize the positive aspects of shared custody
Learning to "Not Take the Bait." (It's a superpower, trust me)

SESSION 6

The Evolution to Self-Love / Getting the Life You Desire / Plus Dating Wisdom & Stepparenting Success Guide

Modeling self-love as the most powerful way to teach children inner security
Understanding how confidence supports happiness, decision-making, and rational reactions in stressful times
Identifying and healing negative limiting beliefs
Practical steps to build sustainable self-love
The "Secret" to Happiness and aligning your life with your values and goals
Dating with wisdom after separation or divorce
Stepparenting Success Guide: supporting children through blended family transitions

SESSION 7

Making Parenting Easier & More Successful

Foundational principles that create lasting behavioral change in children
Practical techniques for building trust and accountability
Strategies for managing challenging behaviors with both compassion and consistency
Tools for raising emotionally resilient, responsible, and self-directed children
The difference between "Punishment" and "Discipline." (One works, one just makes everyone mad)

SESSION 8

Mastering Communication, and Reducing a Co-parent’s Anger While Incorporating Guidelines and Boundaries

Re-centering on your child’s rights and best interests, rather than “winning” a conflict
Shifting from anger and reactivity to empathy, patience, and productive focus
Understanding three common high-conflict outcomes and how to work toward the healthiest one
Strategies for helping a coparent reduce their anger (when possible and safe)
Communicating more effectively using two proven frameworks: EAR (Empathy, Attention, Respect) and BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)
Beginning to build boundaries, Parallel Parenting with non-verbal communication, and Strategic Interventions
Transitioning to and maintaining an effective Parallel Parenting Plan (PPP)
Do’s and Don’ts of journaling and documentation habits to support both personal clarity and potential legal review

SESSION 9

Strategic Interventions, Creating a Parallel Parenting Plan, and Pre-Mediation & Custody Coaching

This session provides the strategic tools needed to move from high-conflict chaos to a more structured and enforceable environment
Understanding the role and potential benefits of Parenting Coordinators
Pre-mediation and custody coaching strategies, with an emphasis on emotional regulation and child advocacy
Parallel Parenting Plan, Building a Wall between You and the Drama
How to walk into that room and win by being the most reasonable person there

Ready to start? Your kid's future self is already thanking you. 🙏

DISCLAIMER

(For professional advice, find someone with a bar license and fancy mahogany desk)

This Course is not legal advice. I am still not a lawyer or a psychologist. The information is based on certified training through both High Conflict Institute and High Conflict Parenting by Breakthrough Parenting Academy, along with research, books by specialists, psychology courses, and interviews with professionals such as Parent Coordinators, Family Law Attorneys, Mediators, Evaluators, and Family Court Judges. It is advised to seek legal counsel from an Attorney and Counseling from a Specialist.

Course Pricing

$149

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